You Are Enough
Most people are now aware of what I write in my blogs — motivated, inspiring stories to make you all feel how precious and important you are. Well, today morning was a hard one. Suffering from many struggles, health issues, I was challenged to write taking a sip of my favorite coffee, sitting in my own space, and just saying — “you are enough”.
The journey of everyone is as special as one feels. We talk with a lot of joy, tears in our eyes, struggles we face believing and owning the fact that “I am enough”. Does this sound relevant to you?
My brain always pushes me back. I haven’t done something extraordinary in my life; all my dreams are not fulfilled yet. I have loved every human being on this earth who so ever it may be. Life seems incomplete still. There are times when I feel exhausted, frustrated not because of the reasons people give me but of not believing in myself. Days have been really hard when I want to shout it loudly, tell millions of people yes I am in a bad state of my mind — physically, emotionally, and mentally. I was not this ever before. Those are my rough days. Days where I start doubting myself, when I keep my phone on silent and don’t want anyone to disturb me, days when I want to talk to someone I feel comfortable but unable to do that.
Have you faced any of the above situations? What have you done when you are trapped? Trust me people around you will never understand this. Even the closest relationship you carry would take a back seat. That’s the time you need to stand up alone and say “I am enough for myself”.
Maybe you can have your favorite brownie
Without thinking about your body
Maybe you can just sit and relax today
Without thinking about how much you have to pay
Maybe you can be thankful for what you have today
Without thinking this is what you asked for someday
Maybe you can start loving yourself
Without thinking what the world self
A very common thing which we hear, how would you go alone so far? You need someone to accompany you. Boss, I need to tell you one thing, I am smart enough to handle everything. I can do such things which others can’t think of. Never underestimate your own powers.
Below is the list of few things which you should do to tell People — “You are enough”.
1. Surround yourself with people who love you and accept you the way you are. Believe me, you would be in peace.
2. Let go of the entire negative and the toxic thoughts, the behavior of the people who make you unhappy. This one is the hardest. Till now, I fail to follow.
3. Make your thoughts as pure as pure is the love for someone. No Dilutions, please. One should not think badly about someone. This is what I have been taught since I was a child and I still follow.
4. Spend some of your time in silence. The pain you are going through only you know that no one can either feel it or will understand it. So, it’s important to spend some quality silence time with yourself.
Remember — “You are strong enough”, brave enough, worthy enough”. Now it’s the time to think about yourself, believing in yourself. No one else will see the world you see because you have your dreams. You might be too much for some people. You might always be too little for some people. But you will always be Just enough for yourself and that’s all matter.
So — “Love yourself, accept yourself, forgive yourself and be good to yourself because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things.”